The court grants custody based on the best interests of the child; The parent's social media posts now directly affect the decision.
Headlines evaluated by the court
- Post containing alcohol/drug use.
- Sharing with violent implications (gun photo, aggressive comment).
- Non-consensual image / distressing images of the child.
- A post clearly targeting the ex-wife.
- Introducing the new partner to the child early.
- Spending relatively more than earning / displaying luxury consumption (financial status inquiry).
Arguments used by the other party
- "Exposing the child on social media" (privacy violation).
- "The lifestyle is not suitable for the child" (privacy, social environment).
- "Financial situation is different from what he declared".
- "The time spent with the child is unrealistic" (post-historical analysis).
Strategy
Frequently asked questions
Did my ex-husband tell me to delete Instagram?
The court does not want you to delete it; However, content that harms the child must be cleared. Mass deletion may be considered obfuscation of evidence in the trial process; It should be done with justification and caution.
Old post used against me; Can I take it back?
Deleted post may come back with Wayback Machine + Instagram data request. It is recommended to explain the reason to the court (e.g. "shared without permission").
Is it enough to close my account?
No, old content can be restored. Combined strategy of "content deletion + archiving" + "account freezing" + "neutral profile on new account".
Will sharing my child's photo be reflected in the court?
If the child's face is exposed, it may be considered non-consensual sharing (the spouse's consent is also required). The consent of a child over the age of 12 is important. Explicit sharing mitigation is recommended.
Is LinkedIn / X (Twitter) sharing also a problem?
Yes, it is used in financial situation + business time arguments. "Permanent holiday" "luxury restaurant" is open to the counter argument. Keep the professional account separate from children's topics.
Relevant legislation
- Law No. 6284 — Injunctions to prevent domestic violence.
- TCK art.134-136 — Violation of privacy; image/audio recordings.
- TCK art.103, 226 — Sexual abuse / obscenity against a child.
- TCK Article 106 (threat), Article 125 (insult) — Crimes frequently applied in cyber bullying.
- Law No. 5651 art.9/A — Urgent content removal.